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Keeping yourself and your children safe on social networks

Social networking sites such as MySpace , Facebook , and Tumblr (among others) have surged in popularity in the last few years. These sites can be fun and are generally a legitimate way for children, teens and adults to interact with their peers and meet new people online. However, they are also potential avenues for cyber-predators to solicit children and expose them to inappropriate material.

Here are a few tips on how to guide your child's activities on these sites and protect them from inappropriate and unlawful content.


Tips for parents

  • Talk to your kids — ask questions (and then confirm to make sure they are telling you the truth!)
  • Ask to see their profile page (for the first time) tomorrow! (It gives them a chance to remove everything that isn't appropriate or safe and it becomes a way to teach them what not to post instead of being a gotcha moment! Think of it as the loud announcement before walking downstairs to a teen party you're hosting.)
  • Don't panic! There are ways of keeping your kids safe online. It's easier than you think!
  • Be involved and work with others in your community. Think about joining and help create a local cyber-neighborhood watch program in your community. Also consider participating in i-SAFE , an Internet safety education program.
  • Remember what you did that your parents would have killed you had they known, when you were fifteen.
  • This too will pass! Most kids really do use social networks just to communicate with their friends. Take a breath, gather your thoughts and get help when you need it. (You can reach out to
  • It's not an invasion of their privacy if strangers can see it. There is a difference between reading their paper diary that is tucked away in their sock drawer and reading their MySpace. One is between them and the paper it's written on; the other between them and 700 million people online!
  • Don't believe everything you read online — especially if your teen posts it on their MySpace page!
  • Repeat this mantra: "I'm still the parent!" If they don't listen or follow your rules, unplug the computer.

Tips for kids

  • Put everything behind password protected walls, where only friends can see.
  • Protect your password and make sure you really know who someone is before you allow them onto your friends list.
  • Blur or morph your photos a bit so they won't be abused by cyberbullies or predators.
  • Don't post anything your parents, principal or a predator couldn't see.
  • What you post online stays online — forever! So thinkb4uClick!
  • Don't do or say anything online you wouldn't say offline.
  • Protect your privacy and your friends' privacy too. Get their okay before posting something about them or their pic online.
  • Check what your friends are posting/saying about you. Even if you are careful, they may not be and may be putting you at risk.
  • That cute 14-year old boy may not be cute, may not be 14 and may not be a boy! You never know!
  • And, unless you're prepared to attach your MySpace to your college/job/internship/scholarship or sports team application...don't post it publicly!

Other information

Parents' guide to social networking, diary, and blog sites from

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